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First born child Society has place a rule or mandate it on our first born child, that it is a must they will carry the load of the family,this is now becoming an issue in our society because even our parents are buying this silly ideas, that is why in our society today majority of those doing prostitution work are the first borns,go to the prison you will be shocked that almost all that has committed crime is the first borns child. The pressure on the first borns child are much society believes that because you are the first child of a family you must be the bread winner of that house hold and if at a point you are not financially stable to leave upto their expectations, this so called society will not place any value on the first borns child not minding the fact that your business and work is not going fine. That is why firstborn child are always bitter and depressed,in a family where the firstborn child can not perform to the family expectations society will start mocking the first borns child,and when they think of all what is happening to them, how society and their family who are soppose to stand by them are treating them they will rather go and starts doing illegal stuff just to meet up with their family demands. As a parent you are soppose to be the backbone of your children not always comparing them to others children, not listening to what society is impacting on them , that is why we have so many criminals,yahoo and prostitute etc. As a parent show your children love let them understand how nature work, That is why am urging first born child not to be a victim of circumstance,do your best and live the rest because at some point in life everybody has his or her own life to live, Never stop trying Keep pushing be focus be courageous until you achieve your goals, don't listen to what society has to say because the truth is that wether you do good or bad people will always talk so be you be original.a