6-FACTS IN MARRIAGE

A TRUE EYE-OPENER! ✨ A friend came to my house for coffee and we sat down, started talking about life. After a while I interrupted the conversation and I said to him, that I was going to wash the dishes, I'll be right back.” He looked at me like I told him to build a spaceship or carry 1,000 kg stone. So he said to me with admiration and a little stumped, ′′Glad you help your wife, I rarely help mine because when I do she never thank me. Last week I washed the floor and she didn't even tell me to thank you.” I sat back down with him again and explained to him that I don't ′′help′′ my wife. Actually, my wife doesn't need help, because she isn't a worker at my home but she is a partner and so she needs a partner, a teammate. I'm her home partner… and due to that, all functions are divided, which is not “help” with household chores. 1. I don't “help” my wife clean the house because I also live in it and I need to clean it too. 2. I don't “help” my wife to cook, because I also want to eat and that's why I cook too. 3. I don't “help” her washing dishes after eating, because I use same dishes too. 4. I don't “help” my wife with kids, because they are mine too and I have to be a father. 5. I don't “help” my wife wash, extend, fold, and put away laundry because it's mine and my kids too. 6. I don't give a “helping hand” at home, I'm part of it. Then with respect, I asked my friend when was the last time his wife finished cleaning the house, doing laundry, changing the bedsheets, bathing the kids, cooking, organizing, etc.. and did he say: “thank you?” I mean a real thank you, like, “Wow, baby!! You're amazing!!" Does this all seem absurd? Does it sound weird to you? When, once in your life, you cleaned the floor, you expected at least an excellence award with great glory… why? Haven't you ever thought about that? Maybe, because for you, martial culture taught you that everything is a woman's task. But let me tell you something. work as you are doing it for yourself.