The Inherent Makeup of the woman

If one does not know how something functions, he will either misuse it or abuse it. So also it is in a marriage relationship. If a man does not know the unique attributes by which his wife is made of and begin to benefit from it, he abuses it. Let’s look at some of these inherent qualities 1. Tenacity Women have strong willpower especially when they put their minds into something. I have seen lots of women who manage companies, are in leadership positions or even in a busy career and yet come back to their homes and take care of their husband. Many men will break down if they engage in numerous tasks at the same time. Women can put up with much adversity and still survive, unlike most men. I realized that women stay longer in an uncomfortable situation more than men. 2. Enhancer As an enhancer, the woman enables her man to accomplish the vision and purpose for which they where both created for. Remember the wife’s purpose relates to her husband’s purpose. She shares in his vision, encourage the man along the way, and helps him to accomplish his vision. I can also say that the woman as an enhancer improves the quality of her man. 3. Helper A woman should understand that one of her unique nature is to be a helper and that she has been designed with many qualities and abilities that equip her to help. The woman’s purpose is to assist her man in fulfilling God’s plan for his life and that is why when a man has no plan, the woman is in trouble. She will suffer stress and frustration which can even lead to depression. This will also lead to the woman pursuing her own vision which might bring crisis in her marriage because the man might begin to see his wife as being domineering. 4. Influencer women possess and exhibit the ability to influence. This is also called influence power. It is a powerful tool inside the woman. I have seen women used this tool to bring down great and powerful men, they have also used this tool to cause things happen in their favour