TWO NEEDS OF A MAN AND TWO NEEDS OF A WOMAN

For couples to have a peaceful marriage they need to understand their natural need and endeavors to meet them. let’s look at these needs in parts, the first part is that of the man. 1. Sex. Man is created to carry the seed for procreation and for him to fulfill this purpose, there must be an urge in him that will always trigger him to always need sex. This is natural. That is why a man will have sex with his spouse today and the following day he will demand for another. The only thing is that a few men have been able to learn how to control this urge through the development of self-discipline. 2. Respect. A man does not need love, what a man need is respect. I can also call it submission. When a woman tells a man that she loves him, the man interprets it as respect. That is what he needs. Men feed on respect, they don’t want it but they need it. Now the question is, what is respect? It can be defined as an ‘. ” expression of high or special regard”,” an act of giving particular attention”, it also means to speak highly of. Submission is the action that flows out of the attitude of respect. In marriage submission and respect goes together. 1. Love. Women are designed by God to be receivers of love that is why women always want you to give them. Don’t get confused about love and sex in a marriage relationship. Sex is satisfying a need but love is an act of the will, it is a decision to commit to meet the needs of the woman. As a matter of fact, women don’t need sex what they need is love. They enjoy sex but they don’t need it. So always be committed to showing your woman love. 2. Affection Affection is showing that you care about her. It is an action that is communicated through gestures, words, or touches. Taking your wife out, telling her how beautiful she looks, fonding, etc. It is a feeling of liking and fonding. Love and affection need to go together. Now, you have seen that a man’s need is different from a woman’s need.